How to figure out if the man you are dating is married or not

What kind of stories do we hear here and there? A man hiding his marriage and is with many women at the same time for many months; the story of man who has proposed to another woman even though he is already married…As you ask people, the list of such stories goes on even longer. The question is: Do some women not see the truth or do they choose not to?

If you are in a relationship and your inner voice tells you that there is something wrong with this affair, I think you should listen to this voice. If your boyfriend says that he is single yet acts inconsistently you had better pay closer attention. If the only number he has given you is his cell phone, then it would be a wise move. If he hesitates in giving you his office or home number then this might well be an indication of something. If his cell phone is usually turned off or he won`t answer during evening hours or holidays this might be another cause for concern.

Pay attention to the restaurants he takes you to. If he chooses silent and remote places this might be a warning to you. How does he pay at the restaurants or other places when you are together? Does he use his credit card or pay in cash? While you are talking about family, children and holidays you might take together, how does he respond? If he uses the excuse of an early meeting tomorrow morning and leaves early when you meet for the night this might point out to a house-affiliation. If he has not introduced you to his family or his friends this might be because he has a second life. Listen to your inner voice. If it says `there is something odd with this relationship`; it is high time you sat down, thought about it and faced him.

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